魅力之源——《诱惑的艺术》读后感

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    《诱惑的艺术》作者罗伯特.格林 朱斯特.艾尔弗斯

    魅力之源——《诱惑的艺术》读后感


    作者认为“赢得爱情比统帅军队需要更多的天赋。”

    本书中西方人对待情感是张扬外放的,感性统帅了自己,理性丢到九霄云外。为了美人丢弃江山,比如凯撒,拿破仑。在西方传统文化中,在古希腊时期从认同情感和崇拜自然本能开始,情感奠定了西方文化的重要地位。情感是一种与生俱来的生命体验,代表着活力,代表着生命体。当科技和知识统领了世界之后,是没有尽头的生产价值追求,不顾一切的财富获取,同情心隐退,爱和善渐行渐远,文化变的轻浮和浅薄,知识和人格严重分离,人们心中没有了柔软的东西,诗歌在社会中无处立足,文学躲进角落,人们被股票、收益、薪金困扰,再也欣赏不到花开花谢,月圆月缺的美好,失去的不是景物,而是欣赏景物的心情。

    本书视角独特,从世俗化的角度展现了西方人丰富而张扬的情感世界。魅力是指诱惑他人并使其被我们深深吸引的力量。它左右着人的审美,影响着人的行为,塑造着整个社会的品味。任何人都有魅力,大多数人并没有意识到自己有这种潜能。人们总是把魅力想象成一种神秘莫测的东西。本书认为具有魅力,唯一要做的就是搞清楚人们性格中的哪些特点会自然而然地打动他人,从而发掘自己身上所具备的这种潜质。

    成功的诱惑很少因为伎俩或战略方案,它是根植于您的性格和能力。这种能力使得您的特质由内而外散发出来,他人不由自主滴被您吸引、感动,沉迷于你的诱惑魅力之中,如此诱惑和征服他们便如探囊取物了。

    世间有9种诱惑者,每一种都有独树一帜源自内心并激发诱惑之力的性格特点。妖女纵情流世的女性魅力,浪子飘忽而来行踪不定变幻莫测的吸引力,梦中情人高超的审美鉴赏力,浪漫是其法宝;幻性情人喜欢摆弄形象,展现出一种惹人注目的雌雄合体的独特魅力;天真情人无拘无束,思想奔放;挑逗者本身魅力如电,本质却有种令人着魔的淡定;魔力大师为社交而生,天生知道如何讨好别人;魅力领袖具有不同凡响的自信;气质明星举手投足充满诱惑,飘渺虚幻,他们始终笼罩在神秘的光环中。

    作者详细描述了9种类型的诱惑者,带您了解他们的内心世界,为你解读各种魅力,有兴趣的读者可以好好读一读。

    魅力之源——《诱惑的艺术》读后感


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